The Secret to The Secret: Unlocking the Hidden Step to True Mind Power
The power of the mind is often misunderstood. So many of us believe we’re practicing The Secret correctly. We speak our affirmations. We visualize the life we want. We try to think positively. But still, something doesn’t click.
That’s because we’re missing a crucial piece.
This blog will go over what is really happening in the subconscious mind, especially in childhood, and why what we believe doesn’t always match what we receive.
I wrote this to empower parents, caregivers, and anyone seeking transformation. Let me show you what’s really going on behind the scenes, and how to unlock the power that’s already within you and your family.
The Foundation of Mind Power: Understanding the Critical Factor and Why Childhood Matters
Before Age 7: The Open Subconscious
Before the age of 7, there is no critical factor. The Critical Factor is a filter that blocks new beliefs from easily entering your subconscious mind. That means your child’s environment should be created with intention and care.
Ages 7–11: The Rise of the Critical Factor
From ages 7-11, the critical factor (that chatterbox that keeps your mind running all night) begins to develop. Whatever thoughts and beliefs are stored in the subconscious vault are very much protected. In fact, whether negative or positive, the critical factor protects the mind form anything that challenges those beliefs.
So, if you are presenting a new belief to your mind, the critical factor might not like it. If the information coming in contradicts the opinion of your subconscious mind, then that information will be rejected.
After Age 11: Resistance to Change and How to Overcome It
After 11 years old, it becomes harder to absorb new and valuable information, because of the Critical Factor. If only we can lower its guard so that we can have a moment with your subconscious mind. There is!
Let me show you 🫶.
The 3 Laws That Shape Your Mind Power
1. The Law of Projection
This is the most common law we see played out on an everyday basis. The Law of Projection shows us the power of the mind in shaping our reality, not because the outside world changes, but because our perception of it does.
For example, from previous experiences where feelings of insecurity were deposited (and we might not have even fully realized it), you may walk into a room and think, “Everyone is judging me.”
When in reality, no one is judging you, but because of your inner insecurity, your mind is projecting that fear outward.
2. The Law of Attraction
What you choose to consistently think and feel, you begin to attract into your life on a subconscious level.
The Law of Attraction is not “magic.” Just saying what you want to attract out loud, so everyone can hear it, is not enough. The Law of Attraction takes mental focus, emotional alignment, and subconscious belief to truly create reality.
3. The Law of Transfiguration
The Law of Transfiguration is when the information, beliefs, and feelings stored in your subconscious mind begin to play out through family and friends closest to you – kids, significant others, etc.
The Law of Transfiguration teaches us that the beliefs, emotions, and patterns stored deep in your subconscious don’t just stay with you; they ripple outward and begin to show up in the behaviors of those closest to you, especially your children and partner.
Empowering Your Family with the Right Tools
Your mind is a powerful tool! Let me teach you how to use it.
At my workshop, The Parent Empowerment Portal, taking place on August 7, 2025, I will teach you how to leverage these laws to create a positive family life and foster an environment in which your family can grow and thrive.
I will teach you the reality of the world and then show you how to reverse negative beliefs formed by influences throughout the day in just 5-10 meaningful minutes. I am happy to share that I have helped a 5-year-old and a 13-year-old stop wetting the bed at night after being introduced to the right tools for their minds.
You don’t want to miss this! With only 10 spots available, this intimate experience is designed to offer personalized support in a calming, sacred space. Don’t wait! Reserve your spot.
